Mom's Day

So my mother's day celebrating started last Friday when I spent they shopping with Mom :) We went to ihop for breakfast and chitchat then browsing the shops. She spoils me with spring clothing. Thanks Mom! I'm so lucky to have such a great Mom. She makes me feel like a kid again. Then on Sunday the plan was to go to Peddlers Village and spend a nice day browsing and having dinner. But.... we got lost and wasted too much time getting there :( We literally got to go in 3 shoppes before stores were closing up. By 5:30pm Jake was complaining that he was hungry but all the restraunts were packed! So we decided to hit an Italian/American restaurant down the road. We didn't know it was reservation only. So after walking out, the hostess came out saying they would fit us in anyway, and we accepted. The sign outfront said "3 course meal for $16." But, no where on the menu was that listed. In fact there was nothing on the menu less then $22. I don't even want to know what a cocktail would've cost. So, after the hostess made a snark remark about "planning ahead," we decided to leave. WTF? Is that how you treat your customers? You don't deserve our business. With our group of 6, she was easily out $200. So we decided to go to good ole Apple Bees instead. And it was there I started feeling really like shit. I can't pinpoint it, maybe it's my weight, maybe it's my financial status or both. Not to mention my irritability already present from "getting lost." I think I just needed to scream!

I felt great last week being able to get two good exercise workouts in. But it's been three days since and I feel like I've failed myself. Maybe there's hope it was not for nothing IF I can work out today. But I hear that my hubby just walked in from work, and is blasting the 700 club. Sometimes I wish I lived alone. I know that sounds shitty- but that's what I'm trying to tell you- that's the mood I've been in. Just leave me the frig alone!

Victim of Sneaky Bank Schemes

Well yes we have fallen victim to Wells Fargo's dirty handed scheme to foreclose on it's homeowners. At the moment there is a case action lawsuit against big banks like Wells Fargo for it's underhanded business dealings setting 90% of it's clients up to fail or fall behind on their mortgages and then threaten to foreclose. We are no exception. It just really leaves a bad taste in my mouth that our very own mortgage lender would do such a nastey thing. We can't trust even our banks anymore? WTF is this world coming to? I hope those dirty bastards get what's coming to them and get it BAD! TRUST NO ONE!!!!

When my husband was laid off from his employment, we were keeping ends met, until last year when things got really tight- me having lost my part time job. We fell 2 months behind and were really trying to work with the mortgage company to make the payments. Then Wells Fargo picked up our loan and said they could work with us by applying for this and that, and then the dreaded remodification loan process reared it's ugly head. Not knowing law requires you to have a lawyer present, my husband did it over the phone with these guys (our own lender who should be trusted). Turns out, they misguided us on purpose to fall even further behind on our payments only to harrass us daily threatening forclosure. Isn't that lovely? During this time we've been made aware of all the dirty deals going on out there right now. TRUST NO ONE!

Right now, things seem to be a little better. Wells Fargo finally agreed to lower our monthly payments for 3 months probably due to the pressing lawsuit being brought against them to change their dirty ways of under handing people. But who knows what will happen after this. ::sigh:: How do I stay positive in such a crappy world?

Prankster on the Wangsters

So I can't seem to shake this feeling. For two weeks now I've been hatin' on the world! I have no good excuse really, just everything has been getting to me. This isn't like me. I even smudged myself the other night thinking I had to of picked up some bad mojo somewhere. But I'm still easily irritable. Even those closest to me are pissing me off. I'm sure my hubby loves how often I'm tossing around the F bomb too.

The whole crappy computer thing keeps me pissed off that's for sure. It's a good thing I haven't needed it to edit pictures lately cause then I'd probably have a breakdown. You know those days when everything seems to go wrong? as if the world is against you? Yep been having ALOT of those days lately, more so than I've ever had! It's like a hex has been placed on me. Not as far fetched as it sounds. I have a crappy next door neighbor sending bad mojo. I really should work on that.

Speaking of neighbors.... I think they are all a bunch of freakin whack jobs! Erika & Joe being the exception. Seriously, I don't get it. We've lived here 10 years and we speak to NONE of them. Not just our doing, they just don't acknowledge us even being here unless they want a petition signed or whatever. And I just love how they insist on taking up two parking spots in front of my home because they don't feel like parking in front of theirs. WTF? .......................... "evil smirk" I just got the urge to have a little fun. Yes I'm feeling slightly scampish! It's fun when you just dont give a care about concequences. I'll let you know what happens after I pull my pranks. Muahahaha.....

Baby Hatchlings

Approximately 6:15am this morning, the Crows nested just out front were teaching their 6 babies to leave the nest. The commotion outside my window had me roll out of bed to find out what the heck was going on. Other birds were chirping, squirrels were making that hissing squeaking sound they make and the baby crows were squawking times 6 of them! I watched for 5 minutes as the parentals bounced from tree limb to tree limb squawking for their young to follow. All but 1 seemed to catch on pretty quickly. The one sat alone on the limb after it's siblings left, whistling quite beautifully. I didn't know crows could whistle so nicely. Good for you little one for being unique. I think I read somewhere that crows live to be about 30-50years old. I wouldn't mind having the whistling crow stay nearby. Before now, I never realized how noisey and loud they can be. But I'd take their noise over the noise of my ignorant neighbors and city life any day.

Shape Your Future with Law of Attraction

Catching up!

I've been feeling pretty good these past few days, happy and grateful for our home while it's still ours to keep. I've been grateful our marriage has grown as strong as it is today and for our kids being mainly pretty healthy and doing well in school. I'm proud, I'm happy, and I've been satisfied. I've been taking the time to admire the flowers, the birds and bees, and I was even fortunate enough to see a white butterfly visiting my garden yesterday TWICE! To see a white butterfly is said to bring good luck :) So why then is my next door neighbor hassling me about my beautiful flowering dogwood tree that borders both properties?

While fertilizing my azaleas this evening, my estranged neighbor Ray comes outside to tell me "again" that he wants to cut the branches off my tree that cross the property line. I asked him again why he wanted to do such a thing. He insists squirrels are bothering his windows. I've looked over the tree and the branches do not even extend near to his windows because Chris keeps the branches pruned back from his home. It's just an excuse to be an asshole. He's been telling me for 10 years now that he hates my tree. Somehow I believe him this time when he says he'll cut it down.

So I said to him with frustration in my voice "GO AHEAD!" If you want to war with me, DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO!" With that after throwing my hands up in the air I stormed in the house. He's never seen me that angry and I hope it sends a real message. Either do it or shut the fuck up old man. I can't recall the last time he actually had something nice to say other than a complaint of some kind. The only time he speaks to us is when he or his family needs a favor. We used to talk all the time about 5 or 6 years ago. I'm not really sure what happened. He was diagnosed with prostate cancer and I really think it went to his brain! The main has a shitty relationship with his wife and frankly I think he's just a bitter miserable man looking to take some kind of control over anything he can in his life. Why not get picky over my tree? After all it's not hurting anyone. If anything it's providing him shade on hot sunny days- since he uprooted his tree a few years ago.  ::sigh::

If he touches the tree, I swear.... he will regret it. After all the noise I put up with his three ankle biting barking dogs day in and day out, and I haven't complained- oh yes he will regret he ever messed with me. I'll turn into the neighbor from hell! How many times have we helped them out over the years? and this is the thanks we get? ok pal. I have your number.

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We've been having some really warm and beautiful weather these past few days. It's been making me so sleepy! It just feels so nice to curl up in the sunlight and siesta with the breeze and wind chimes singing. Ahhh lazy mornings and afternoons. Sucks for accomplishing anything. Imagine if there were no such concept of time? What if there were no clocks dictating our day? What if we just went about our business in our own good time? The idea sounds rather tantalizing to me. To be here and now- without rush or hussel. Present!

Chris and I have been day dreaming about the future. (hows that for an oxy-moron ^ ) We plan to hang around here until Dana graduates high school. Then we plan to follow our dreams and leave the city. But, until then we've accepted this to be our dwelling and continue putting everything we love into this as our home and hopefully the future owners will love it as well. We plan to pave the back yard into a driveway and build a deck off the kitchen :) just as I've always dreamed of doing. How lovely it will be to have outside dining and entertaining! I can't hardly wait! French sliding glass doors of course are a must! Unless.... I can find something on a Japanese zen design :) Then there would be no need for curtains. Hmmmm.... Also the bar would get a complete makeover as well. Everything must go! New tiled floors, new bar design in the opposite end of the room, totally refashioned into a zen den :) But with the stripper pole back in place haha. Plasma screen tv's mounted appropriately, and plenty of room for dancing! Why not make the best of the last remaining 2yrs?

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I've been fascinated with a pair of ravens that have nested just out front the house about two doors over. I've been watching them for the past month or so stake out the perfect nesting tree. Finally they've decided to settle, meanwhile paying my dogwood a visit almost daily to collect branches for their new home. Loud birds they are... They caw alot but it doesn't bother me. I like to imagine what the conversations are about. I wonder if they are expecting to lay some eggs soon. It's been at least 8 years since I've seen baby crows around. Come to think about it, I haven't seen any robins around lately either. Hmmm..... Still I continue to refill the bird feeder once every three days hoping to observe the different birdies that stop by for a meal.

I took all my plastic flowers out of my window boxes upstairs, hoping the morning doves would nest there again. I even layered one of them with some raffia to tempt them, but they have not come. :( I remember a time when I felt a tight bond with the critters around me. Now I feel like I must re-establish the trust. So sad. But I'm sure it will happen.

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This week was back to school week after spring break that just ended. Chris takes us to school in the mornings but he has to leave right away to get back to work- therefore I walk home. Which I don't like until Im actually in route enjoying all the blooms and Lilacs scenting the air. Mmmm lilacs! I must get 1 or 2 for my property. Such a delightful scent! Maybe I'll line my property with them to cut of my troublesome neighbor. But he'd surely want to cut them down as well- grumpy old man.

So today, while letting Jake run off some energy in the playground I sat quietly hoping the other parents stayed away. I don't know, but I hate talking to strangers. And they're all just so weird over there! I'd rather keep quietly to myself to think, notice the little things about the kids, listen to the laughter, watch the cloud formations. Call me a dork, maybe I am! So I walk Jakers to his line and his teacher doesn't come out. Every morning my little dude worries about getting a substitute teacher. With tears in his eyes he resists staying in his line without me beside him. But then the gym teacher comes out to get them, and they all erupt with excited cheer! The girls running up to hug him, the boys high fiving him. Quickly the frown turned upside down and all was ok in the world as he waved to me goodbye. :) And once again, I was on my route home smelling the lilacs in the air, concentrating on tightening my muscles as I struggled to power walk in Adidas sandals. lol

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I've been trying out some really good recipes from my new vegetarian cookbook this week. I'm pretty proud of ourselves for really sticking to it. But then it's easy to do when you change your way of thinking and actually give a shit about what your eating. This week I made Lemon Pepper Bow ties with Asparagus which was ok. Not a huge fan of lemon pepper recipes but tried it anyway. Then I made Tortellini soup & salad which was fantastic, and even better the second day for a snack. And today we had rice and bean enchiladas! Holla! they were delish! We celebrated Easter at the olive garden with my parents and my sister's family where Chris and I had eggplant parm. OMG wanna talk about YUM? this was so good I licked my plate clean hahaha, well not really- my bread stick licked it clean ;) I did indulge in dessert by having a white chocolate raspberry cheesecake slice, mmmm which I enjoyed so much I was in a state of bliss for hours after! Seriously! I think not eating stuff like that anymore really sent me into some strange state of happiness. Endorphin overload! Hahaha

So this evening, I sat down to watch two tear jerking movies... what better way to level my emotions right? Extremely happy to really sad. I should level off somewhere in the middle don't ya think? The kids and I watched Hachi a dogs tale. Richard Gere starred in it- such a nice film based on a true story about loyalty. And the other was Serious Moonlight starring Meg Ryan. Dark comedy that had its moments and made me cry lol. A lot of touching stuff right thurrr. :)

Anyway... I'd better cut out now, I think I've already written a chapter or two.
Until next time.....

Time for a reinvention :P

Sometimes I don't know whether to give up or dive deeper into my work, family, health, or life in general. It would be so easy to just give up and give a big ole middle finger to the world, but really I don't want to go out like that. So it may be time to reinvent myself. And that's exactly what I've started to do. Healthwise, it's paying off. I feel good! Lately, I feel so good I forget how old I actually am. Yesterday I was goofing off trying to immitate my goldfish when they are hungry.... I did a flying leap into the air with the most tramatic looking face, sending the family into a fit of hysterics! Last night and through most of the day today I was suffering excrusiating pain in my theighs and back side knees. Ahh why yes, that new scent I'm wearing is BEN GAY! simmered on high with a heating pad! lol I feel like a 100 bucks now by the way.

Oh and since Im eating nothing but healthy these past few weeks, Im hoping my lack of artificial hormone intake smooths over soon. I am a 34 year old mature woman and should NOT be having facial breakouts! For crying out loud! Im not sure if I have lost any weight yet (I avoid the scale) but I definately have more energy and mentally feel thinner. My husband noticed :) or was he being nice?

Anyway, I've taken up an interest family wise again. I forgot how much I've enjoyed spending time with certain family members :) Laughter and enjoyment have returned, and my days aren't so blah blah blah anymore. I actually give a shit about things other than me! How about that? lol Sleep is overrated anyway. Spring is here and I want to enjoy it. I hope by Summer, I'll be well on my way to bathing suit shopping!!! Hello! Hell I'll be happy just to fit into a cute mini skirt, and form fitting top again. I'm planning on having a bonfire for all my cover ups and baby doll tops & big butt jeans! Hoot Hoot! Can I get a size 6 please? I've decided to settle for a size 6 instead of my glorified size 4 (I always mention.) It's more realistic, but who knows what natural body God really intends me to have. I've stopped eating the CRAP! I might be a size 4! Here's hoping! Mentally Im ready, and Im mentally preparing to dive into an exercise program next. I just recieved SKINNY BITCH BODY. 

Another area I'd like to reinvent myself is with my photography. I think now Im ready to be a little more picky and choosey. My vision of final outcome is becoming more clear and certain. I know the quality of work I want to produce, and Im ready to make it happen. :)